Love speaks in many ways – what’s your primary love language? Take this quick quiz to discover how you most feel and show love: through words, actions, time, gifts, or touch.
When someone wants to show you they care, you’d most appreciate them…
Telling you exactly what they admire about you.
Doing a chore you dislike – washing dishes or running an errand.
Planning an uninterrupted evening just for the two of you.
Surprising you with a small gift “just because.”
Reaching out for a warm hug or holding your hand.
Your favorite way to express love is by…
Leaving a heartfelt note or sending an uplifting text.
Cooking someone’s favorite meal or pitching in unexpectedly.
Turning off distractions and really listening.
Picking out something meaningful as a surprise.
Offering a comforting shoulder squeeze or cuddle.
On a special occasion, you most look forward to…
Hearing heartfelt toasts and genuine compliments.
Having loved ones handle the party setup and cleanup.
Spending one-on-one time without interruptions.
Unwrapping a thoughtful keepsake.
Dancing close or sharing affectionate moments.
When you’re feeling down, what lifts you up most?
Encouraging words and reminders of your strengths.
Someone stepping in to lighten your load.
A heartfelt conversation over coffee.
A surprise pick-me-up, like flowers or a small treat.
A comforting hug or gentle touch.
You feel closest to someone when they…
Remind you how much you mean to them in words.
Help you without being asked.
Give you their full attention, phone off.
Thoughtfully pick something just for you.
Hold you or touch you affectionately.
Your ideal weekend with a partner or friend includes…
Sharing your goals and giving each other pep talks.
Tackling a home project together and sharing the workload.
Going on an outing where you can talk – long hike or coffee shop.
Swapping small, meaningful souvenirs during a day out.
Relaxing together with cuddles or massages.
You feel most appreciated when someone…
Sends you a sincere compliment out of the blue.
Notices something you need and takes care of it.
Schedules dedicated time just for you.
Gifts you something that shows they “get” you.
Reaches to hold your hand or gives you a pat on the back.
When you’re miles apart, you feel most loved by…
Receiving voice messages telling you they miss you.
Knowing they handled a task for you remotely.
A scheduled video date or long phone call.
Getting a surprise care package in the mail.
A virtual “hug” or feeling their presence through affectionate gestures.
At a party with friends, you feel most special when someone…
Gives you a shout-out praising you in front of the group.
Offers to fetch you a drink or handles something for you.
Pulls you aside for a one-on-one chat.
Surprises you with a small gift that reflects your taste.
Gives you a friendly hug or pat on the shoulder.
If a friend is having a tough time, you comfort them by…
Reminding them how strong they are and that you believe in them.
Doing something helpful – bringing soup or running an errand.
Simply sitting with them and listening.
Giving them a thoughtful gift to lift their spirits.
Offering a warm hug or holding their hand.
When you wake up, you prefer to see…
A sweet good-morning text appreciating you.
A cup of coffee or breakfast already waiting.
Someone ready to spend the morning with you.
A small gift or note left by your bedside.
A gentle good-morning hug or cuddle.
Words of Affirmation
You feel loved when you hear genuine compliments, encouragement, and verbal appreciation.
Acts of Service
You value it when someone helps you out – small favors and thoughtful gestures speak volumes.
Quality Time
You crave undivided attention and meaningful conversations more than anything else.
Receiving Gifts
You cherish tangible symbols of love – thoughtful presents remind you you’re cared for.
Physical Touch
You connect through hugs, hand-holding, and other affectionate contact.
