About this test
People feel cared for in different ways. For some it is a kind word, for others it is time together, a thoughtful gift, a helping hand or a hug. This love language quiz gives you 20 either-or questions about what would make you happier, and at the end shows which of five styles stands out for you.
The quiz works for partners, friends and family, and the questions are family friendly. It is an original, unofficial quiz that is not affiliated with the author or publisher of any book on the topic, and it is meant for fun and reflection.
What the five styles mean
Words of Affirmation is about hearing praise and thanks. Quality Time is about undivided attention. Receiving Gifts is about the thought behind a present, and Acts of Service is about someone making your day easier. Physical Touch is about closeness such as hugs and a hand on the shoulder.
Most people have one or two styles that matter most and a few that matter less. Neither is better, they are just different.
Using your result
Share the result with people you care about and ask for theirs. Knowing that a friend values time while you value words can explain a lot of small misunderstandings.
The result is a conversation starter, not a rule. If your answers were close between two styles, both probably apply to you.
Frequently asked questions
Is this the official love languages test?
No. It is an original, unofficial quiz inspired by the idea that people feel appreciated in different ways. It is not affiliated with any author or publisher.
Is it only for couples?
No. The questions are written so that they also work for friends, family and colleagues.
Can my love language change?
Yes. Life situations and moods can shift what matters most to you.
Is the result scientific?
No. It is a fun quiz with 20 questions, not a psychological assessment.
Is this a scientific personality test?
No. It is a playful quiz made for entertainment. It is not a psychological assessment and cannot diagnose anything or replace advice from a professional.
How is my result worked out?
Each answer adds points to one or more result types. At the end the type with the most points is your result. Because it is a game, a different mood on a different day can give you a different answer.
Can I take it again?
Yes, as often as you like. Answer quickly and honestly for the most interesting result.
Does it cost anything?
No. You do not need an account or a sign-up.
Are my results saved?
Your answers stay in your browser. Only the share link you choose to send contains your result.